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The Down Low on Dildos

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The next time your favorite Italian restaurant brings out those bread sticks and olive oil to your table, keep in mind they could be suggesting you go fuck yourself. Italians do not actually eat their bread sticks this way, however ancient Greeks used bread shaped dildos lubricated with olive oil to satisfy those late night cravings. If you have ever wondered about the history of your favorite pleasure toy we are here with a brief overview of the twisted history of dildos.

That pink plastic perfection hiding in your bedside drawer has spent about 30,000 years becoming the magical toy it is today. According to some archaeologists, humans already made dildos as early as during the Stone Age. Ancient Greek vase art portrayed dildos in a clear and explicitly sexual manner often used in orgies or masturbation scenes. There are also the bizarre breadstick dildos we mentioned earlier called olisbokollikes that were recovered from 5th century Greece and tend to top all the “weirdest sex toys” lists around the Internet. Some civilizations even included elaborate gold and bronze dildos in their burial rituals. The “Cantonese groin,” was a root sufficiently penis-shaped to be used as a dildo by peasant women.

When you think of dildo, you probably imagine a silicone (or plastic) phallus shape. However, both of these are newer inventions, and people used other types of materials earlier. During history, people made wooden dildos, stone, tar, ivory, bone, and many others. Today, you can even find ones made of metal designed for the ones looking for something a bit different. Obviously, stone dildos are not the a great choice, so people started looking for something more comfortable. During the fifteenth century, in Italy, people began using materials like leather to make them a bit softer and more enjoyable. Similarly, in the seventeenth century Japan, they used buffalo horns for making dildos. In Greece, people used leather and animal intestines to make dildos comfortable and to offer a more natural texture. Over the years, people moved to more standardized materials like rubber, glass, and anything that can be easily sterilized and cleaned.

Dildos did become taboo for a while as Christianity spread, even as recently as 1980 bills have been passed through the house and senate to regulate the number of dildos someone could have in their home. (The Arizona Dildo Law) There are many places where buying a dildo is not possible. For example, purchasing one in Alabama requires a note from your doctor. Naturally, one can assume that dildos are used as medical devices in Alabama. Similarly, selling dildos was illegal in Texas as well. While the Texas dildo law remains, judges are unwilling to charge anyone, and there haven’t been prosecutions in over a decade. Sex toys are illegal in India as well.

While the dildo is literally as old as phallic rocks, the vibrator is a more recent invention and needs electric or battery power to operate. Vibrators were originally devised for sinister and downright invasive purposes, by doctors who wanted to use them to treat “hysterical” women patients. So, if you prefer a powered toy you can thank the crazy French doctors for your next O.

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Dating VS Marriage

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Dating and marriage are two distinct stages in a romantic relationship that come with their own set of dynamics and expectations, especially when it comes to the bedroom. In this essay, I will explore the differences between dating and marriage in terms of intimacy, communication, and expectations in the bedroom.

Dating is typically a more casual and exploratory stage where individuals are getting to know each other on a deeper level. Intimacy in dating can range from flirtation and teasing to physical affection and sexual exploration. The bedroom dynamics in dating are often characterized by excitement, passion, and the thrill of discovering each other’s desires and preferences.

In dating, partners may be more focused on the physical aspects of intimacy, such as attraction, chemistry, and sexual compatibility. Communication in the bedroom during the dating stage may be more lighthearted, playful, and spontaneous as partners explore their boundaries and comfort levels with each other.

On the other hand, marriage is a deeper commitment that involves a more significant emotional, physical, and spiritual connection between partners. Intimacy in marriage goes beyond the physical aspects and encompasses emotional closeness, trust, and understanding. The bedroom dynamics in marriage are often characterized by a sense of comfort, security, and a deep emotional bond between partners.

In marriage, partners may focus more on the emotional and relational aspects of intimacy, such as trust, communication, and mutual fulfillment. Communication in the bedroom during marriage may be more open, vulnerable, and honest as partners navigate the challenges and joys of a long-term partnership.

Expectations in the bedroom also differ between dating and marriage. In dating, partners may have fewer expectations and may be more focused on exploring and enjoying the moment. In marriage, partners may have higher expectations for intimacy, communication, and satisfaction in the bedroom as they navigate the complexities of a long-term commitment.

In conclusion, dating and marriage come with their own unique dynamics, expectations, and challenges in the bedroom. While dating is more focused on exploration, passion, and physical attraction, marriage emphasizes emotional intimacy, trust, and communication in the bedroom. Both stages offer their own opportunities for growth, fulfillment, and connection between partners as they navigate the intricacies of building a strong and lasting relationship.

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Kinky questions to ask a new sex partner

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When delving into new sexual experiences with a new partner, it’s important to establish open communication and boundaries. Asking kinky questions can help you both navigate your desires and fantasies comfortably. Here are some kinky questions you may consider asking a new sex partner:

1. Have you ever explored kink or BDSM activities before? What are your thoughts or experiences with it?
2. What are your specific turn-ons or fantasies that you’d like to explore with me?
3. Are there any particular acts or roles that you enjoy or are curious about trying in the bedroom?
4. How do you feel about incorporating toys or props into our sexual encounters?
5. Are you open to trying light bondage, restraints, or sensory play (such as blindfolds or feather ticklers)?
6. Do you have any hard limits or activities that you’re uncomfortable with during sex?
7. Would you be interested in exploring different power dynamics or role-playing scenarios?
8. How do you feel about incorporating elements of domination or submission into our sexual activities?
9. Have you ever tried impact play (such as spanking or flogging) before? Would you be interested in exploring it with me?
10. Are there any specific words or phrases that turn you on or that you find particularly arousing during sex?

Remember, it’s important to approach these questions with an open and non-judgmental attitude, and to always prioritize clear communication and mutual consent in any sexual exploration with a new partner. Enjoy exploring your desires and boundaries together!

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Masterbation Tips

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Masturbation is a natural and normal part of human sexuality. It can be a pleasurable and healthy way to explore your body, understand your sexual desires, and relieve stress. However, for many people, knowing how to masturbate effectively and enjoyably can be a learning experience. Here are some tips to help enhance your solo sexual experience:

1. Find a private and comfortable space: Creating a safe and comfortable environment is essential for a positive masturbation experience. Make sure you have privacy and won’t be interrupted, and consider dimming the lights, playing relaxing music, or using candles to set the mood.

2. Experiment with different techniques: There is no right or wrong way to masturbate, so don’t be afraid to explore different techniques to find what feels best for you. Try using different strokes, speeds, pressures, and motions to see what brings you the most pleasure.

3. Use lubrication: Using lubrication can enhance the sensations and make the experience more pleasurable. Experiment with different types of lubricants, such as water-based, silicone-based, or oil-based, to find what works best for you.

4. Explore your erogenous zones: Your body is full of sensitive and erogenous zones that can enhance your masturbation experience. Experiment with touching and stimulating different parts of your body, such as your nipples, inner thighs, and neck, to heighten pleasure.

5. Incorporate fantasy or erotic material: Engaging in sexual fantasies or using erotic material, such as porn, erotica, or sexting, can help enhance arousal and add excitement to your masturbation session. Just remember to use these resources in a healthy and mindful way.

6. Focus on breathing and relaxation: Pay attention to your breathing and try to relax your body during masturbation. Deep breathing can help you stay present and connected to your body, enhancing the pleasurable sensations.

7. Practice self-love and self-acceptance: Masturbation is a natural and healthy way to explore your sexuality and pleasure. Embrace your body, desires, and fantasies without judgment or shame, and remember that self-pleasure is a positive and empowering act.

Overall, masturbation is a personal and individual experience, so it’s important to explore and discover what feels best for you. By being open-minded, curious, and gentle with yourself, you can enhance your solo sexual experience and enjoy the many benefits that self-pleasure can offer.

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