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Strange Sex Saturday: Life on the Edge – Edgeplay

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Not to be confused with edging, the practice of bringing someone to the brink of orgasm without achieving climax, edgeplay is on the spectrum of the BDSM world.  It is known as R.A.C.K sex, or risk-aware consensual kink. In other words, the practices associated with edgeplay push one’s limits both psychologically and physiologically.

What is it

Edgeplay activities are vast and can vary quite drastically from person to person. As a general rule of thumb, edgeplay is best described as pushing someone to their own personal limits, or their “edge.” Another aspect to consider with edgeplay is the risk factor or danger levels involved with said practices. Sensual spanking, for example, would not be considered edgeplay. This is because the risk level of spanking is relatively low to practically non-existent. While there are potential risks involved, the participants do not partake in edgeplay with an underlying desire to come as close to death as humanly possible, nor do they wish to actually die. Rather it is the potential of danger that is titillating and enticing to them, not actual death itself.

Why people are turned on flirting with death

it is natural for human beings to be tempted into unknown territories. People’s fascinations with death have and always will exist. From being intrigued with true crime to young ladies falling in love with serial killers, we each have our own fascination will death in one way or another. Curiosity into the realm of the beyond is one thing that will eternally remain unknown. We are attracted to what we cannot have, what we cannot know, perceive, touch, see or smell. Perhaps one of the most common and ultimate taboos is that of this forbidden knowledge.

Common forms of edgeplay

One common edgy practice is one that involves bleeding. Whether it be by cutting, whipping lacerations or needle play (also called piercing play), drawing blood is considered an extreme kink because of the potential risks that come along with it. Another common practice that falls under this category is breath play. This is one of the more common forms because of the dangerous scenarios it opens doors to. Whether the asphyxiation is brought on manually via choking, or done with a plastic bag, belt, immersion in water, you name it, breath play can potentially lead to unconsciousness, brain damage and even death. Fire play is another practice that isn’t as often discussed as blood or breath play, but of course, still poses serious risks. This is not to be confused with wax play where hot candle wax is poured directly on the skin. Fire play incorporates actual fire into the mix and may cause significant burns, decreased sensation (if done on the genitals) as well as accidentally lighting your bed on fire.

Arguably the most dangerous form of sexual kink out there, edgeplay proudly claims this title because of its ability to push the limits of one’s own life. Despite the dangers involved, if done properly, consensually and sanely, the risks associated with edgeplay will be significantly decreased. If this practice is appealing to you, make sure to do your research beforehand. Talk to others who have been established within the scene and don’t be shy to ask questions! We will see you next week for more exploration into the stranger sides of sex.

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Dating VS Marriage

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Dating and marriage are two distinct stages in a romantic relationship that come with their own set of dynamics and expectations, especially when it comes to the bedroom. In this essay, I will explore the differences between dating and marriage in terms of intimacy, communication, and expectations in the bedroom.

Dating is typically a more casual and exploratory stage where individuals are getting to know each other on a deeper level. Intimacy in dating can range from flirtation and teasing to physical affection and sexual exploration. The bedroom dynamics in dating are often characterized by excitement, passion, and the thrill of discovering each other’s desires and preferences.

In dating, partners may be more focused on the physical aspects of intimacy, such as attraction, chemistry, and sexual compatibility. Communication in the bedroom during the dating stage may be more lighthearted, playful, and spontaneous as partners explore their boundaries and comfort levels with each other.

On the other hand, marriage is a deeper commitment that involves a more significant emotional, physical, and spiritual connection between partners. Intimacy in marriage goes beyond the physical aspects and encompasses emotional closeness, trust, and understanding. The bedroom dynamics in marriage are often characterized by a sense of comfort, security, and a deep emotional bond between partners.

In marriage, partners may focus more on the emotional and relational aspects of intimacy, such as trust, communication, and mutual fulfillment. Communication in the bedroom during marriage may be more open, vulnerable, and honest as partners navigate the challenges and joys of a long-term partnership.

Expectations in the bedroom also differ between dating and marriage. In dating, partners may have fewer expectations and may be more focused on exploring and enjoying the moment. In marriage, partners may have higher expectations for intimacy, communication, and satisfaction in the bedroom as they navigate the complexities of a long-term commitment.

In conclusion, dating and marriage come with their own unique dynamics, expectations, and challenges in the bedroom. While dating is more focused on exploration, passion, and physical attraction, marriage emphasizes emotional intimacy, trust, and communication in the bedroom. Both stages offer their own opportunities for growth, fulfillment, and connection between partners as they navigate the intricacies of building a strong and lasting relationship.

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Kinky questions to ask a new sex partner

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When delving into new sexual experiences with a new partner, it’s important to establish open communication and boundaries. Asking kinky questions can help you both navigate your desires and fantasies comfortably. Here are some kinky questions you may consider asking a new sex partner:

1. Have you ever explored kink or BDSM activities before? What are your thoughts or experiences with it?
2. What are your specific turn-ons or fantasies that you’d like to explore with me?
3. Are there any particular acts or roles that you enjoy or are curious about trying in the bedroom?
4. How do you feel about incorporating toys or props into our sexual encounters?
5. Are you open to trying light bondage, restraints, or sensory play (such as blindfolds or feather ticklers)?
6. Do you have any hard limits or activities that you’re uncomfortable with during sex?
7. Would you be interested in exploring different power dynamics or role-playing scenarios?
8. How do you feel about incorporating elements of domination or submission into our sexual activities?
9. Have you ever tried impact play (such as spanking or flogging) before? Would you be interested in exploring it with me?
10. Are there any specific words or phrases that turn you on or that you find particularly arousing during sex?

Remember, it’s important to approach these questions with an open and non-judgmental attitude, and to always prioritize clear communication and mutual consent in any sexual exploration with a new partner. Enjoy exploring your desires and boundaries together!

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Masterbation Tips

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Masturbation is a natural and normal part of human sexuality. It can be a pleasurable and healthy way to explore your body, understand your sexual desires, and relieve stress. However, for many people, knowing how to masturbate effectively and enjoyably can be a learning experience. Here are some tips to help enhance your solo sexual experience:

1. Find a private and comfortable space: Creating a safe and comfortable environment is essential for a positive masturbation experience. Make sure you have privacy and won’t be interrupted, and consider dimming the lights, playing relaxing music, or using candles to set the mood.

2. Experiment with different techniques: There is no right or wrong way to masturbate, so don’t be afraid to explore different techniques to find what feels best for you. Try using different strokes, speeds, pressures, and motions to see what brings you the most pleasure.

3. Use lubrication: Using lubrication can enhance the sensations and make the experience more pleasurable. Experiment with different types of lubricants, such as water-based, silicone-based, or oil-based, to find what works best for you.

4. Explore your erogenous zones: Your body is full of sensitive and erogenous zones that can enhance your masturbation experience. Experiment with touching and stimulating different parts of your body, such as your nipples, inner thighs, and neck, to heighten pleasure.

5. Incorporate fantasy or erotic material: Engaging in sexual fantasies or using erotic material, such as porn, erotica, or sexting, can help enhance arousal and add excitement to your masturbation session. Just remember to use these resources in a healthy and mindful way.

6. Focus on breathing and relaxation: Pay attention to your breathing and try to relax your body during masturbation. Deep breathing can help you stay present and connected to your body, enhancing the pleasurable sensations.

7. Practice self-love and self-acceptance: Masturbation is a natural and healthy way to explore your sexuality and pleasure. Embrace your body, desires, and fantasies without judgment or shame, and remember that self-pleasure is a positive and empowering act.

Overall, masturbation is a personal and individual experience, so it’s important to explore and discover what feels best for you. By being open-minded, curious, and gentle with yourself, you can enhance your solo sexual experience and enjoy the many benefits that self-pleasure can offer.

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