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Strange Sex Saturday – Chastity Play

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Are you burned out from all the holiday sex? Well don’t worry, Saturdays may be all about exploring the stranger sides of sex and sexuality, but that doesn’t always mean actual sex! To give us all a break to rehydrate and recover this week’s strange sex Saturday is all about chastity play.

What is Chastity Play

Chastity play is an emotional intimacy enhancement tool that increases sexual tension and focus in your relationship. Also called chastity, or caging, it is a type of intimacy enhancement between two consenting adults. Typically, it requires a Keyholder, someone who desires to be keyheld, and a chastity device. Unlike celibacy, chastity is the highly erotic application of sexual restraint. It enhances the intimacy and bond shared in a relationship. However, it does not require that you eliminate intercourse from the relationship altogether.

How does it work

Chastity play is a form of orgasm control. Orgasm control is exactly as it sounds. The Keyholder controls the sexual pleasure and release of the keyheld. The Keyholder, may have all the pleasure they want, however they want, as often and as long as they want. The only one restricted during chastity play is the keyheld. The keyholder locks their partner in a device to prevent them from becoming fully aroused so that once they are finally freed, they will be unable to control their full desire. This form of chastity play can add an intense new level of fun to your bedroom antics. Devices most suitable for this type of play are harnesses, waist belts and metal cages. However, some couples prefer a less stringent game and enjoy using the honor system without a device.

Please remember that keyholding is never an excuse for neglect. Chastity play should always be practiced safely and consensually. We will see you next week while we explore more of the “stranger” sides of sex and sexuality.

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Anasteemaphilia

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Anasteemaphilia is a term that refers to a sexual attraction to or fascination with statues, sculptures, or other forms of art that depict the human form, often in a highly realistic or idealized manner. This attraction is not uncommon and can be a source of inspiration for many people who appreciate art, beauty, and human anatomy.

It’s important to note that sexual attraction to statues or sculptures is not the same as fetishism, which involves the use of an object for sexual arousal or gratification. Anasteemaphilia is more about the appreciation of art and the beauty of the human form, rather than using it for sexual purposes.

Some people may experience anasteemaphilia as a result of their artistic or cultural background, while others may develop it as a result of their own personal experiences and interests. Regardless of its origins, anasteemaphilia can be a source of inspiration and enjoyment for those who appreciate art and beauty.

It’s also important to note that anasteemaphilia is not limited to traditional sculpture or statues. It can also include other forms of art that depict the human form, such as photographs, paintings, or digital artwork.

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Lactophilia

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Lactophilia, also known as lactosexuality or lactophilia, is a term used to describe a sexual attraction to breastfeeding or the breast milk of another person. It is a type of paraphilia, a sexual preference that involves the arousal or excitement that comes from the thought or act of breastfeeding or the consumption of breast milk.

People who are lactophiles may experience a range of sexual responses to breastfeeding, including arousal, excitement, and pleasure. Some individuals may also fantasize about breastfeeding or drinking breast milk as part of their sexual activities.

It’s important to note that lactophilia is not necessarily associated with any specific age, gender, or orientation. Anyone can develop a sexual interest in breastfeeding or breast milk, regardless of their own gender or sexual orientation.

Some people may find lactophilia to be a source of comfort and intimacy in their relationships, while others may view it as a taboo or unconventional practice. It’s important to respect the boundaries and preferences of all individuals involved in any sexual activity, including those related to lactophilia.

 

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The good and bad of threesomes

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The topic of threesomes! Let’s dive into the pros and cons of this intimate experience.

**Threesomes: Good**

1. **Excitement and Novelty**: Threesomes can bring a new level of excitement and thrill to a relationship, as it involves a new partner and a different dynamic.
2. **Increased Intimacy**: When done correctly, a threesome can create a sense of closeness and intimacy among the three individuals involved, as they work together to create a memorable experience.
3. **Exploration and Discovery**: Threesomes can be an opportunity for individuals to explore their desires, boundaries, and desires with each other, leading to a deeper understanding of themselves and their partners.
4. **Strengthened Bond**: A successful threesome can strengthen the bond between partners, as they work together to navigate the experience and communicate effectively.

**Threesomes: Bad**

1. **Emotional Complications**: Adding a third person to the mix can create emotional complications, such as feelings of jealousy, insecurity, or abandonment.
2. **Pressure and Stress**: The pressure to perform or impress the third person can lead to stress and anxiety, making it difficult to fully enjoy the experience.
3. **Risk of Disconnection**: A threesome can lead to disconnection from one’s primary partner if not handled carefully, as attention is divided between two people.
4. **Unrealistic Expectations**: Some people may have unrealistic expectations about what a threesome will be like, leading to disappointment or frustration when it doesn’t meet those expectations.
5. **Potential for Unhealthy Dynamics**: If not approached with clear boundaries and communication, a threesome can create unhealthy dynamics, such as exploitation or power imbalances.

Threesomes can be a positive and exciting experience when approached with open communication, trust, and respect among all parties involved. However, they can also lead to negative consequences if not handled carefully. It’s essential to consider the potential risks and benefits before engaging in a threesome, ensuring that all parties are comfortable and willing participants.

 

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