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While some people enjoy sex as a one-time thing, some like their sexual partners to be in for the long run. But no matter what, every man and woman holds sex regrets in their hearts. Sex regrets are like anything else, you do it now but then later you feel guilty, sad or just plain weird. Most of the sex regrets might relate to not doing something right, having sex for the wrong reasons, or down right just sleeping with the wrong person!

Losing Virginity to a One Night Stand:  A survey conducted by a relationship site, Your Tango, has revealed that not only woman but also some men count losing virginity to the wrong person as a sex regret. Woman in general, talk about how losing virginity is a very personal experience and a very a very prominent one too. They believe that losing it to someone who they won’t talk to again feels as if they have shared a very big experience with a stranger and it doesn’t feel right. Some men also regret having had sex with a girl who they never got to see again. They said that having sex with someone who they would be for a long time would have been more exciting and memorable.

Not Having Sex with Enough People:  While many women be thought of as a slut for having sex with more than a handful of guys in their lifetime, men are almost expected to have multiple partners. Once a man settles down with the love their life, or even just their love of right now, they may have regrets that they haven’t have sex with enough people. There is no right or wrong number of how many people to have sex with, but some people do wonder if they are missing out if they haven’t done it enough.

Having Sex With Un-Attractive Person: Sometimes in the moment, or at last call, you make a bad decision to settle and have sex with whoever is available.  Try not to think about the right now and think about that walk of shame or coyote ugly in the morning.

Being Too Afraid to Approach a Person For Sex: Another regret that goes along with not having sex with enough people.  Maybe your regret about not having sex with enough people is becuase you didn’t put yourself out there and approach a potential partner.

Not Being Sexually Adventurous when Single: You have nothing to lose.  Sometimes sex is funny, sometimes there are weird sounds, or weird props.  Let it go and allow yourself to be adventurous and put yourself out there.  What’s the worse that can happen?

Making a Sex Tape: Don’t put yourself so far out there that you have permanent proof on the internet!  It is one thing to put yourself out there and try that new sex swing you have been eyeing up.  It’s another thing for your mother to see the video on the internet.  A lot of celebrities (wanna be celebrities) think that a sex tape is the way to make your celeb status concreit, think Teen Mom Farrah, but they almost always regret doing so. So will you!

Sleeping with the Wrong Person: Mostly men hold this sex regret, and that is to have slept with the wrong person, mostly a close friend or a friend of friend. Men mostly have sex with someone in the heat of the moment, and then regret it later. For example, man men regret having slept with girls who they were just friends with, thus making things awkward between them.

Sleeping with a Married Person: This regret is common in men and women both. You go out on a date, bring someone back and have a night of steamy sex, later to find out that the person you warmed the bed with is married and has a family. Women and men both regret this because they find it wrong to have had sex with, although unintentionally, someone who is a wife/ husband of another person.  Some men also regret having slept with their best friends’ wives and stuff like that, because what they did in the moment could lead up to something serious, like a fight or a divorce.

Not Getting Called After: Now, this particular regret, as we all know it, is common in almost all women who date. They go out on a date, and knowing that the guy is a player they still go back to his apartment and sleep with him. In the morning, he takes the number and promises to call but the call never comes.  Women feel like they gave themselves to the wrong person and also feel used because as most men are only thinking about sex, women want it to develop into something more intimate.

 

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First date deal breakers

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When it comes to first dates, there are certain behaviors or traits that can immediately raise red flags and lead to a swift conclusion that the relationship is not worth pursuing. These “deal breakers” can vary from person to person, but some common issues that often lead to a disinterest in a second date include a lack of emotional intelligence, constant complaining, and poor communication skills.

A lack of emotional intelligence can be particularly off-putting, as it suggests that the individual may not be able to empathize with others or manage their own emotions in a healthy way. This can lead to feelings of frustration, resentment, and ultimately, a breakdown in the relationship. Constant complaining, on the other hand, can be draining and exhausting, making it difficult to enjoy each other’s company or feel like you’re on the same wavelength.

Poor communication skills are also a major turn-off, as they can lead to misunderstandings, resentment, and feelings of being unheard or ignored. When communication is lacking, it can create a sense of disconnection and make it difficult to build a strong foundation for a relationship. Other red flags that may signal the need to end the date early include showing up late, being disorganized, or dominating the conversation.

In addition to these specific behaviors, there are also certain personal traits that can be major deal breakers. For example, someone who is overly critical or dismissive of others’ interests may come across as arrogant or entitled. Similarly, someone who doesn’t respect boundaries or pushy may be seen as overbearing or controlling. Ultimately, the biggest deal breakers on a first date will depend on an individual’s personal values and non-negotiables, but generally speaking, these red flags can signal that the relationship may not be worth pursuing further.

In conclusion, while every person has their own unique list of deal breakers when it comes to first dates, there are certain behaviors and traits that are commonly off-putting. By being aware of these potential red flags and communicating openly with your partner about what you’re looking for in a relationship, you can increase your chances of finding someone who is compatible and shares your values.

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Understanding BDSM

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The world of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism)! It’s a complex and multifaceted topic that can be both thrilling and intimidating for those new to the scene.

**Understanding BDSM:**

BDSM is a consensual and negotiated form of sexual expression that involves a range of activities, including:

1. **Bondage:** Physical restraint using ropes, chains, or other materials.
2. **Discipline:** Punishment or correction through physical or emotional means.
3. **Dominance/Submission:** One person takes control, while the other submits to their desires.
4. **Sadism/Masochism:** One person derives pleasure from inflicting pain or humiliation, while the other derives pleasure from receiving it.

**Safety First:**

Before exploring BDSM, it’s essential to prioritize safety and consent:

1. **Consent:** Obtain explicit consent from all parties involved in any activity.
2. **Communication:** Discuss boundaries, desires, and limits with your partner(s) beforehand.
3. **Safe words:** Establish a safe word or signal to stop the activity if needed.
4. **Hygiene and cleanliness:** Practice good hygiene to prevent infection.

**Getting Started:**

If you’re new to BDSM, consider the following steps:

1. **Explore online resources:** Websites, forums, and social media groups can provide valuable information and connections with others.
2. **Read about different activities:** Learn about various BDSM practices, their implications, and potential risks.
3. **Find a community:** Attend local events, join online groups, or find a mentor to learn from experienced individuals.
4. **Start with soft play:** Begin with non-painful activities like role-playing, sensual massage, or bondage using rope toys.

**Activities for Novices:**

Some popular BDSM activities for beginners include:

1. **Flogging:** A form of impact play using a flogger (soft or hard).
2. **Rope bondage:** Tying someone up using rope or cordage.
3. **Sensory deprivation:** Using blindfolds, earplugs, or headphones to heighten sensory experience.
4. **Mummification:** Wrapping someone in cloth or tape for sensation play.

**Tips for Success:**

1. **Communicate openly:** Discuss your desires and boundaries with your partner(s).
2. **Start slow:** Gradually introduce new activities to ensure comfort and consent.
3. **Respect limits:** Never push someone beyond their comfort zone or violate their consent.
4. **Practice self-care:** Prioritize physical and emotional well-being after engaging in BDSM activities.

Remember that BDSM is a journey, and it’s essential to prioritize safety, communication, and consent above all else. If you’re interested in exploring BDSM further, take your time, be patient, and respect the boundaries of yourself and others.

 

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Balloon Fetish

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The fascination with balloons! It’s not uncommon for people to have unique preferences or attractions, and balloon-related arousal is one such phenomenon. While it’s not universally accepted, there are a few theories that might help explain why some people might be turned on by balloons:

1. **Textural stimulation**: The tactile sensation of balloons can be quite pleasurable for some individuals. The smooth, soft, and sometimes slightly rough texture of balloons can be a source of sensory pleasure. Some people might enjoy the feeling of running their fingers or hands over the balloon’s surface, or even popping the balloon to release the air and feel the sudden release of pressure.
2. **Visual appeal**: Balloons can be quite visually appealing, with their vibrant colors, shapes, and sizes. The way they move and float in the air can be mesmerizing, and some people might find the visual display stimulating. The sound of balloons popping or releasing air can also be a sensory trigger.
3. **Nostalgia and childhood associations**: For some people, balloons might evoke memories of childhood birthday parties, celebrations, or special events. The association with happy times and feelings of joy can create a sense of nostalgia and emotional connection to balloons.
4. **Sensory exploration**: Some individuals might be attracted to balloons due to their unique sensory properties. The way they respond to touch, pressure, and movement can create a sense of curiosity and exploration. This curiosity can translate into a sense of arousal or pleasure.
5. **Kinky or fetishistic interest**: In some cases, the attraction to balloons might be related to specific kinks or fetishes. For instance, some people might enjoy the feeling of being bound or restrained by balloons, while others might find the idea of inflating or deflating balloons as a form of erotic play appealing.
6. **Neurological factors**: Research suggests that human brains are wired to respond to certain stimuli, including textures, sounds, and visuals. Some people might have an innate predisposition to find certain sensory experiences pleasurable, including those associated with balloons.

It’s essential to remember that these theories are not universally accepted and are based on individual perspectives and experiences. It’s crucial to respect people’s individual preferences and boundaries when it comes to their sexual attractions.

In conclusion, while the reasons for being turned on by balloons might vary from person to person, it’s likely a combination of factors that contributes to this attraction. Ultimately, understanding and respecting individual preferences is essential for building a more inclusive and accepting society.

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