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Sex positions for people with Full Figures or Limited Mobility

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Big beautiful humans and humans with disabilities love loving too, don’t settle for so so sex just because you have more cushion, or need a cushion for the pushing. Whether you’ve gained the quarantine 15 and are looking for new ways to celebrate your curves and your sexuality, or you have mobility limitations and are tired of the same positions we have some suggestions that may be perfect for you.

The lap dance

Seated sex can be especially beneficial for anyone with mobility restrictions. The penetrating partner sits in a chair (preferably on flooring that won’t slip). The receiving partner then straddles them, facing whichever way best suits both you and your partners needs. Facing away may be more comfortable for people with big bodies or if there are arm rests on the chair. Seated sex can also be extremely accessible if the penetrative partner is a wheelchair or mobility device user. Should they already use a wheelchair, this position can be achieved quite easily. If the receiving partner can walk, they can sit on the penetrative partner’s wheelchair or mobility device, and that way both partners can participate in sexy, seated fun. If you have a bigger body, getting on top of your lover can feel intimidating, using a chair instead of trying a cowgirl position you can use the back of the chair for a handle, and you can put most of your weight on the floor allowing you to worry less and enjoy more.

The Pillow Prop

With a little help you can be on your knees without needing to support your body. There are many sex pillows on the market, the most useful of these may be the wedge. Try lying across the wedge,

place your thighs against the back of the wedge, and let the furniture do the work while you’re penetrated or receive oral sex or do other kinky things. Pillow propped positions may be more disability-friendly with the receiving partner using a wedge. It is important also to double-check with the penetrative partner as to their disability and access needs in these positions, as issues with chronic pain are common for people with Ehler’s-Danlos Syndrome, Cerebral Palsy, etc you may need to modify as their needs deem.

The Stand and Deliver

The receiving partner lies on their back on the bed, or table, or couch, and the penetrating partner enters them while standing next to the bed. This position may not be easily accessible to people with disabilities and/or who use mobility devices. If the penetrating partner has disabilities and uses a walker or a cane, this position could work for them. If the receiving partner has issues with chronic pain and positioning, this kinky position can be modified using pillows. If you have concerns about being able to support your legs in this position consider adding a spreader bar, not for the kink but because this could easily be slipped behind your partners shoulders or held with a hand to help prevent muscular fatigue.

Remember, you’re a beautiful sexy human no matter what, and you deserve what you want, when you want it, and how you want it. Do what feels good, safe and accessible for you.

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Dating VS Marriage

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Dating and marriage are two distinct stages in a romantic relationship that come with their own set of dynamics and expectations, especially when it comes to the bedroom. In this essay, I will explore the differences between dating and marriage in terms of intimacy, communication, and expectations in the bedroom.

Dating is typically a more casual and exploratory stage where individuals are getting to know each other on a deeper level. Intimacy in dating can range from flirtation and teasing to physical affection and sexual exploration. The bedroom dynamics in dating are often characterized by excitement, passion, and the thrill of discovering each other’s desires and preferences.

In dating, partners may be more focused on the physical aspects of intimacy, such as attraction, chemistry, and sexual compatibility. Communication in the bedroom during the dating stage may be more lighthearted, playful, and spontaneous as partners explore their boundaries and comfort levels with each other.

On the other hand, marriage is a deeper commitment that involves a more significant emotional, physical, and spiritual connection between partners. Intimacy in marriage goes beyond the physical aspects and encompasses emotional closeness, trust, and understanding. The bedroom dynamics in marriage are often characterized by a sense of comfort, security, and a deep emotional bond between partners.

In marriage, partners may focus more on the emotional and relational aspects of intimacy, such as trust, communication, and mutual fulfillment. Communication in the bedroom during marriage may be more open, vulnerable, and honest as partners navigate the challenges and joys of a long-term partnership.

Expectations in the bedroom also differ between dating and marriage. In dating, partners may have fewer expectations and may be more focused on exploring and enjoying the moment. In marriage, partners may have higher expectations for intimacy, communication, and satisfaction in the bedroom as they navigate the complexities of a long-term commitment.

In conclusion, dating and marriage come with their own unique dynamics, expectations, and challenges in the bedroom. While dating is more focused on exploration, passion, and physical attraction, marriage emphasizes emotional intimacy, trust, and communication in the bedroom. Both stages offer their own opportunities for growth, fulfillment, and connection between partners as they navigate the intricacies of building a strong and lasting relationship.

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Kinky questions to ask a new sex partner

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When delving into new sexual experiences with a new partner, it’s important to establish open communication and boundaries. Asking kinky questions can help you both navigate your desires and fantasies comfortably. Here are some kinky questions you may consider asking a new sex partner:

1. Have you ever explored kink or BDSM activities before? What are your thoughts or experiences with it?
2. What are your specific turn-ons or fantasies that you’d like to explore with me?
3. Are there any particular acts or roles that you enjoy or are curious about trying in the bedroom?
4. How do you feel about incorporating toys or props into our sexual encounters?
5. Are you open to trying light bondage, restraints, or sensory play (such as blindfolds or feather ticklers)?
6. Do you have any hard limits or activities that you’re uncomfortable with during sex?
7. Would you be interested in exploring different power dynamics or role-playing scenarios?
8. How do you feel about incorporating elements of domination or submission into our sexual activities?
9. Have you ever tried impact play (such as spanking or flogging) before? Would you be interested in exploring it with me?
10. Are there any specific words or phrases that turn you on or that you find particularly arousing during sex?

Remember, it’s important to approach these questions with an open and non-judgmental attitude, and to always prioritize clear communication and mutual consent in any sexual exploration with a new partner. Enjoy exploring your desires and boundaries together!

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Masterbation Tips

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Masturbation is a natural and normal part of human sexuality. It can be a pleasurable and healthy way to explore your body, understand your sexual desires, and relieve stress. However, for many people, knowing how to masturbate effectively and enjoyably can be a learning experience. Here are some tips to help enhance your solo sexual experience:

1. Find a private and comfortable space: Creating a safe and comfortable environment is essential for a positive masturbation experience. Make sure you have privacy and won’t be interrupted, and consider dimming the lights, playing relaxing music, or using candles to set the mood.

2. Experiment with different techniques: There is no right or wrong way to masturbate, so don’t be afraid to explore different techniques to find what feels best for you. Try using different strokes, speeds, pressures, and motions to see what brings you the most pleasure.

3. Use lubrication: Using lubrication can enhance the sensations and make the experience more pleasurable. Experiment with different types of lubricants, such as water-based, silicone-based, or oil-based, to find what works best for you.

4. Explore your erogenous zones: Your body is full of sensitive and erogenous zones that can enhance your masturbation experience. Experiment with touching and stimulating different parts of your body, such as your nipples, inner thighs, and neck, to heighten pleasure.

5. Incorporate fantasy or erotic material: Engaging in sexual fantasies or using erotic material, such as porn, erotica, or sexting, can help enhance arousal and add excitement to your masturbation session. Just remember to use these resources in a healthy and mindful way.

6. Focus on breathing and relaxation: Pay attention to your breathing and try to relax your body during masturbation. Deep breathing can help you stay present and connected to your body, enhancing the pleasurable sensations.

7. Practice self-love and self-acceptance: Masturbation is a natural and healthy way to explore your sexuality and pleasure. Embrace your body, desires, and fantasies without judgment or shame, and remember that self-pleasure is a positive and empowering act.

Overall, masturbation is a personal and individual experience, so it’s important to explore and discover what feels best for you. By being open-minded, curious, and gentle with yourself, you can enhance your solo sexual experience and enjoy the many benefits that self-pleasure can offer.

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