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Sex positions for people with Full Figures or Limited Mobility

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Big beautiful humans and humans with disabilities love loving too, don’t settle for so so sex just because you have more cushion, or need a cushion for the pushing. Whether you’ve gained the quarantine 15 and are looking for new ways to celebrate your curves and your sexuality, or you have mobility limitations and are tired of the same positions we have some suggestions that may be perfect for you.

The lap dance

Seated sex can be especially beneficial for anyone with mobility restrictions. The penetrating partner sits in a chair (preferably on flooring that won’t slip). The receiving partner then straddles them, facing whichever way best suits both you and your partners needs. Facing away may be more comfortable for people with big bodies or if there are arm rests on the chair. Seated sex can also be extremely accessible if the penetrative partner is a wheelchair or mobility device user. Should they already use a wheelchair, this position can be achieved quite easily. If the receiving partner can walk, they can sit on the penetrative partner’s wheelchair or mobility device, and that way both partners can participate in sexy, seated fun. If you have a bigger body, getting on top of your lover can feel intimidating, using a chair instead of trying a cowgirl position you can use the back of the chair for a handle, and you can put most of your weight on the floor allowing you to worry less and enjoy more.

The Pillow Prop

With a little help you can be on your knees without needing to support your body. There are many sex pillows on the market, the most useful of these may be the wedge. Try lying across the wedge,

place your thighs against the back of the wedge, and let the furniture do the work while you’re penetrated or receive oral sex or do other kinky things. Pillow propped positions may be more disability-friendly with the receiving partner using a wedge. It is important also to double-check with the penetrative partner as to their disability and access needs in these positions, as issues with chronic pain are common for people with Ehler’s-Danlos Syndrome, Cerebral Palsy, etc you may need to modify as their needs deem.

The Stand and Deliver

The receiving partner lies on their back on the bed, or table, or couch, and the penetrating partner enters them while standing next to the bed. This position may not be easily accessible to people with disabilities and/or who use mobility devices. If the penetrating partner has disabilities and uses a walker or a cane, this position could work for them. If the receiving partner has issues with chronic pain and positioning, this kinky position can be modified using pillows. If you have concerns about being able to support your legs in this position consider adding a spreader bar, not for the kink but because this could easily be slipped behind your partners shoulders or held with a hand to help prevent muscular fatigue.

Remember, you’re a beautiful sexy human no matter what, and you deserve what you want, when you want it, and how you want it. Do what feels good, safe and accessible for you.

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Anasteemaphilia

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Anasteemaphilia is a term that refers to a sexual attraction to or fascination with statues, sculptures, or other forms of art that depict the human form, often in a highly realistic or idealized manner. This attraction is not uncommon and can be a source of inspiration for many people who appreciate art, beauty, and human anatomy.

It’s important to note that sexual attraction to statues or sculptures is not the same as fetishism, which involves the use of an object for sexual arousal or gratification. Anasteemaphilia is more about the appreciation of art and the beauty of the human form, rather than using it for sexual purposes.

Some people may experience anasteemaphilia as a result of their artistic or cultural background, while others may develop it as a result of their own personal experiences and interests. Regardless of its origins, anasteemaphilia can be a source of inspiration and enjoyment for those who appreciate art and beauty.

It’s also important to note that anasteemaphilia is not limited to traditional sculpture or statues. It can also include other forms of art that depict the human form, such as photographs, paintings, or digital artwork.

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Lactophilia

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Lactophilia, also known as lactosexuality or lactophilia, is a term used to describe a sexual attraction to breastfeeding or the breast milk of another person. It is a type of paraphilia, a sexual preference that involves the arousal or excitement that comes from the thought or act of breastfeeding or the consumption of breast milk.

People who are lactophiles may experience a range of sexual responses to breastfeeding, including arousal, excitement, and pleasure. Some individuals may also fantasize about breastfeeding or drinking breast milk as part of their sexual activities.

It’s important to note that lactophilia is not necessarily associated with any specific age, gender, or orientation. Anyone can develop a sexual interest in breastfeeding or breast milk, regardless of their own gender or sexual orientation.

Some people may find lactophilia to be a source of comfort and intimacy in their relationships, while others may view it as a taboo or unconventional practice. It’s important to respect the boundaries and preferences of all individuals involved in any sexual activity, including those related to lactophilia.

 

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The good and bad of threesomes

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The topic of threesomes! Let’s dive into the pros and cons of this intimate experience.

**Threesomes: Good**

1. **Excitement and Novelty**: Threesomes can bring a new level of excitement and thrill to a relationship, as it involves a new partner and a different dynamic.
2. **Increased Intimacy**: When done correctly, a threesome can create a sense of closeness and intimacy among the three individuals involved, as they work together to create a memorable experience.
3. **Exploration and Discovery**: Threesomes can be an opportunity for individuals to explore their desires, boundaries, and desires with each other, leading to a deeper understanding of themselves and their partners.
4. **Strengthened Bond**: A successful threesome can strengthen the bond between partners, as they work together to navigate the experience and communicate effectively.

**Threesomes: Bad**

1. **Emotional Complications**: Adding a third person to the mix can create emotional complications, such as feelings of jealousy, insecurity, or abandonment.
2. **Pressure and Stress**: The pressure to perform or impress the third person can lead to stress and anxiety, making it difficult to fully enjoy the experience.
3. **Risk of Disconnection**: A threesome can lead to disconnection from one’s primary partner if not handled carefully, as attention is divided between two people.
4. **Unrealistic Expectations**: Some people may have unrealistic expectations about what a threesome will be like, leading to disappointment or frustration when it doesn’t meet those expectations.
5. **Potential for Unhealthy Dynamics**: If not approached with clear boundaries and communication, a threesome can create unhealthy dynamics, such as exploitation or power imbalances.

Threesomes can be a positive and exciting experience when approached with open communication, trust, and respect among all parties involved. However, they can also lead to negative consequences if not handled carefully. It’s essential to consider the potential risks and benefits before engaging in a threesome, ensuring that all parties are comfortable and willing participants.

 

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