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Sex after (SRS) Surgery

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Saturdays were made for exploring all the different marvelous things about sexuality. This week we are answering an anonymous question. What exactly is sex after gender affirmation surgery like? So, if you are struggling with gender identity issues, or are just curious in general about this aspect of a trans persons journey we have some answers for you.

The Biggest Q…or O

Is orgasm still possible? The short answer is Yes! Having surgery to confirm your true gender does not take away your ability to have or enjoy sex. In fact, the surgery is so advance that in the case of Male to Female surgeons not only create the vagina (made with penile skin), labia (scrotal skin), but they also are able to preform a clitoroplasty. When creating the clitoris typically the highly sensitive glans is taken from the tip of the penis and relocated here.

Post op actuality

It is important to remember that post op it is not a female with a penis, or a male with a vagina. Sex reassignment surgeries are normally one of the very last steps taken. After years of hormones, therapy, even legal transitions such as name changes, and sex corrections on legal documents. Post op you are looking at a female who is finally complete, and a male who is whole. For a trans person their penis or vagina post op is as much a natural beautiful part of themselves as a cis gendered persons is.

So, what is sex like?

As with any major surgery there is a long recovery period, however after recovery and in male to female cases the 6-month dilation process at first it is slightly awkward as many have reported feeling self-conscious or that maybe things aren’t going to work properly. Until they come to terms with the fact that just as with cis gendered people some sexual partners are just not good, sometimes sex is bumbling and awkward. However, with the right partners you learn to really love and enjoy your body and sex in a way that feel real and right that you haven’t been able to experience before. One woman went on record during an interview and said “I didn’t realize that it would be this beautiful, natural part of me. I was like, ‘Holy shit, this is beyond what I thought my sex life could be.’”

In short, sex trans or cis is…normal. It is a chance to explore yourself and your partner’s body and learn new things and new pleasures no matter what your gender or journey.

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Tips to enhance your Ejaculation

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1. Practice Kegel exercises: Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles can help you have stronger and longer-lasting ejaculations. Kegel exercises involve contracting and releasing the muscles that control ejaculation. Try practicing these exercises regularly to improve your muscle control.

2. Stay hydrated: Dehydration can lead to thicker and smaller ejaculations. Make sure to drink plenty of water throughout the day to stay hydrated and help improve the consistency of your ejaculation.

3. Eat a balanced diet: Eating a healthy, balanced diet can improve the quality of your semen and enhance your ejaculation. Include foods rich in zinc, vitamin C, and antioxidants in your diet to boost your sexual health.

4. Manage stress: Stress can have a negative impact on your sexual performance, including the quality of your ejaculation. Find ways to manage stress, such as exercise, meditation, or relaxation techniques, to improve your overall sexual health.

5. Try supplements: There are certain supplements that may help enhance your ejaculation, such as L-arginine, zinc, and maca root. Consult with a healthcare provider before trying any supplements to ensure they are safe and effective for you.

6. Communicate with your partner: Open communication with your partner about your sexual preferences and desires can help enhance your ejaculation. Discuss what techniques and activities feel pleasurable for you and work together to enhance your sexual experiences.

7. Experiment with different techniques: Trying out different techniques, such as edging or prostate stimulation, can help enhance your ejaculation. Explore different ways to stimulate yourself or have your partner try new techniques to improve your sexual experiences.

Overall, there are several strategies you can try to enhance your ejaculation. Experiment with different techniques, stay healthy, and communicate with your partner to improve the quality and intensity of your ejaculations.

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Part two: More controversy on the sexual theme parks

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Sex theme parks are a controversial and often sensationalized topic that has captured public interest and curiosity. While there have been rumors and speculation about the existence of sex theme parks in various parts of the world, it is important to note that there is limited concrete evidence to support the notion that such parks actually exist.

Many of the rumors about sex theme parks are based on urban legends, tabloid headlines, and exaggerated stories that have been circulating online and in the media. These stories often portray sex theme parks as elaborate, extravagant attractions where adults can freely engage in sexual activities and fantasies in a controlled and regulated environment.

While there have been reports of adult entertainment venues, strip clubs, and adult-themed resorts that cater to sexual tourism and adult fantasies, the concept of a dedicated sex theme park with a wide range of sexual activities and attractions remains largely speculative. It is important to critically evaluate and fact-check information about sex theme parks, as many of the claims and stories circulating online may not be based on credible sources or verified evidence.

In recent years, there have been some attempts to create sex-themed events and experiences that cater to adult audiences, such as erotic festivals, kink conventions, and erotic-themed parties. However, these events are typically focused on erotic art, entertainment, and education, rather than promoting explicit sexual activities or encounters.

Overall, while the idea of sex theme parks may capture the imagination and curiosity of some individuals, it is important to approach information about them with a critical and discerning eye. As of now, there is limited evidence to support the existence of dedicated sex theme parks that offer a wide range of sexual activities and experiences in a regulated and controlled environment.

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Sex theme parks, contraversal debate

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Sex theme parks are a controversial topic that has sparked debate among the public and lawmakers. Proponents argue that sex theme parks provide a safe, controlled environment for adults to explore their sexuality and fulfill their desires. They believe that these parks can promote sexual exploration, education, and liberation.

One of the main arguments in favor of sex theme parks is that they can help destigmatize sex by normalizing it and promoting open conversations about sexuality. By creating a space where adults can openly discuss their fantasies and desires, sex theme parks can break down barriers and empower individuals to embrace their sexuality without shame or judgment.

In addition, supporters of sex theme parks argue that they can serve as a form of sex education, providing individuals with information about safe sex practices, sexual health, and consent. By providing educational resources and promoting responsible sexual behavior, sex theme parks can help reduce the risk of sexually transmitted infections and unplanned pregnancies.

Furthermore, proponents of sex theme parks believe that they can promote a healthy and positive attitude towards sex. By showcasing a variety of sexual activities, experiences, and preferences, these parks can help individuals explore their sexual identity and desires in a non-judgmental environment. This can lead to increased self-confidence, improved communication skills, and stronger intimate relationships.

However, opponents of sex theme parks argue that they can contribute to the commodification and objectification of sexuality, turning sex into a mere commodity for entertainment and profit. They raise concerns about the potential for exploitation, coercion, and abuse within these parks, especially if individuals are not able to give informed consent or are pressured into engaging in sexual activities.

Moreover, critics argue that sex theme parks can perpetuate harmful stereotypes and reinforce gender inequalities by promoting unrealistic and harmful ideals of beauty, sexuality, and relationships. They warn that these parks can reinforce toxic societal norms and expectations, ultimately perpetuating harmful patterns of behavior and attitudes towards sex and intimacy.

In conclusion, sex theme parks are a complex and controversial topic that raises important questions about sexuality, consent, exploitation, and empowerment. While some argue that these parks can provide a safe and educational space for adults to explore their sexuality, others raise concerns about the potential risks and consequences associated with them. Ultimately, the debate surrounding sex theme parks highlights the need for open and honest conversations about sex, consent, and sexual liberation in society.

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