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What Women say they DON’T want During Oral Sex

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Women everywhere will agree. Oral sex can be amazing! However, there are some things that aren’t entirely necessary. So, we asked women to tell us what they don’t love about the way their partners preform oral for them.

Diving right in

Just because oral is foreplay, doesn’t mean it doesn’t require a little foreplay of its own. Don’t start off by sticking your tongue inside her vagina. Women are not looking for your tongue to replace your penis. Take your time to wander around the vulva and vagina, there are tons of nerve endings enjoy the exploration, just don’t get lost, that is next on our list.

Don’t attack or avoid the clit

Teasing is great when it comes to oral sex, however avoiding the clit all together is maddening and can detract from the experience. One of the women we asked said “If he avoids my clit all together without even brushing over it to show he is avoiding it on purpose I automatically assume he doesn’t know what he’s doing and am ready to move onto the next thing.” Tease it toy with it but don’t attack it. Clitoral stimulation is intense if all your focus is only on the clit you can over stimulate it and it can shift from pleasurable to painful.

Not listening

“Nothing is sexier than a guy who asks what I like, but if he doesn’t listen when I answer he’s a one and done.” It’s great to know what women want, however its even better if you make sure she likes what you’re doing. Don’t be afraid to ask, just while you’re doing it. It’s good to listen while you’re acting as well. For example, “Don’t stop” does not mean, speed up and go harder because you think that will help. It means keep doing exactly what you are doing because it is fabulous.

Most all of them agreed however that even if you weren’t getting it right being happy to try and practice is enough for them to be happy.

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Anasteemaphilia

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Anasteemaphilia is a term that refers to a sexual attraction to or fascination with statues, sculptures, or other forms of art that depict the human form, often in a highly realistic or idealized manner. This attraction is not uncommon and can be a source of inspiration for many people who appreciate art, beauty, and human anatomy.

It’s important to note that sexual attraction to statues or sculptures is not the same as fetishism, which involves the use of an object for sexual arousal or gratification. Anasteemaphilia is more about the appreciation of art and the beauty of the human form, rather than using it for sexual purposes.

Some people may experience anasteemaphilia as a result of their artistic or cultural background, while others may develop it as a result of their own personal experiences and interests. Regardless of its origins, anasteemaphilia can be a source of inspiration and enjoyment for those who appreciate art and beauty.

It’s also important to note that anasteemaphilia is not limited to traditional sculpture or statues. It can also include other forms of art that depict the human form, such as photographs, paintings, or digital artwork.

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Lactophilia

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Lactophilia, also known as lactosexuality or lactophilia, is a term used to describe a sexual attraction to breastfeeding or the breast milk of another person. It is a type of paraphilia, a sexual preference that involves the arousal or excitement that comes from the thought or act of breastfeeding or the consumption of breast milk.

People who are lactophiles may experience a range of sexual responses to breastfeeding, including arousal, excitement, and pleasure. Some individuals may also fantasize about breastfeeding or drinking breast milk as part of their sexual activities.

It’s important to note that lactophilia is not necessarily associated with any specific age, gender, or orientation. Anyone can develop a sexual interest in breastfeeding or breast milk, regardless of their own gender or sexual orientation.

Some people may find lactophilia to be a source of comfort and intimacy in their relationships, while others may view it as a taboo or unconventional practice. It’s important to respect the boundaries and preferences of all individuals involved in any sexual activity, including those related to lactophilia.

 

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The good and bad of threesomes

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The topic of threesomes! Let’s dive into the pros and cons of this intimate experience.

**Threesomes: Good**

1. **Excitement and Novelty**: Threesomes can bring a new level of excitement and thrill to a relationship, as it involves a new partner and a different dynamic.
2. **Increased Intimacy**: When done correctly, a threesome can create a sense of closeness and intimacy among the three individuals involved, as they work together to create a memorable experience.
3. **Exploration and Discovery**: Threesomes can be an opportunity for individuals to explore their desires, boundaries, and desires with each other, leading to a deeper understanding of themselves and their partners.
4. **Strengthened Bond**: A successful threesome can strengthen the bond between partners, as they work together to navigate the experience and communicate effectively.

**Threesomes: Bad**

1. **Emotional Complications**: Adding a third person to the mix can create emotional complications, such as feelings of jealousy, insecurity, or abandonment.
2. **Pressure and Stress**: The pressure to perform or impress the third person can lead to stress and anxiety, making it difficult to fully enjoy the experience.
3. **Risk of Disconnection**: A threesome can lead to disconnection from one’s primary partner if not handled carefully, as attention is divided between two people.
4. **Unrealistic Expectations**: Some people may have unrealistic expectations about what a threesome will be like, leading to disappointment or frustration when it doesn’t meet those expectations.
5. **Potential for Unhealthy Dynamics**: If not approached with clear boundaries and communication, a threesome can create unhealthy dynamics, such as exploitation or power imbalances.

Threesomes can be a positive and exciting experience when approached with open communication, trust, and respect among all parties involved. However, they can also lead to negative consequences if not handled carefully. It’s essential to consider the potential risks and benefits before engaging in a threesome, ensuring that all parties are comfortable and willing participants.

 

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