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Celebrate 12 Days of Christmas Sex



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There are only 12 days left until Christmas! So instead of giving your true love 11 pipers piping, as kinky as that sounds, how about trying out our 12 days of holiday sex countdown. It’s a great way to try some new things while also making sure to squeeze in some time to keep things hot during all the chaos the holiday season normally brings with it.

“Drummers Drumming”

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Rump a bum bum. Oh sorry that’s a completely different song. For day 12 give spanking a try, whether you are the giver or receiver a little light bondage will be sure to add some warm spice to your repertoire.

“Pipers Piping”

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11 days to go, go ahead and try a little suck and blow! Give only giving oral a go, for some extra holiday cheer use a bit of peppermint flavored lube.

“Lords A’ Leaping”

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Leaping during sex is a pretty good way to add an E.R. trip, instead, try some vertical sex positions. Pin your partner against a while and have them ride your north pole while keeping their legs spread like they are leaping instead of wrapped around you, this will allow for extra deep penetration with maximum clitoral stimulation.

“Ladies Dancing”

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This one should be pretty obvious, ladies its time to try out a seasonal striptease. If you aren’t sure what to wear you could always opt to start out nude, or check out our article on this year’s sexiest Christmas lingerie. If you don’t have a personal stripper song we even have a list of some of the sexiest Christmas song remakes you could try out.

“Maids a Milking”

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Roleplay! Christmas is full of different characters you could role play as, Mr. and Mrs. Clause for example. However, if you are new to roleplay and just want to keep it simple stay true to the song and go for a classic French maid outfit. (Hint: Feather dusters double as perfect feather ticklers for some sensation play.)

“Swans A’ Swimming”

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It’s time to get a little wet. If you have a heated indoor pool, try out some underwater sex. If you live in a cold climate or don’t have a pool take it to the shower. If you have already tried shower sex and you and your partner are not fans of the confined spaces, you could also try giving each other a bath as a form of foreplay.

“Geese A’ Laying”

Six days, you are half way there! Trying giving it to your true love with the move we call the “geese a laying.” This position is yet another cunnilingus variation. The receiver sits like a goose laying an egg while their partner performs oral on them. Make sure each partner gets a turn “on top” since it is the season of giving after all.

“Golden Rings”

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Cock rings come in gold, and if you have not tried them out yet this is the perfect opportunity. If you are skeptical about the mutual enjoyment of a cock ring we have the rundown on these perfect little sex additions here.

“Calling Birds”

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Give phone sex a try! If you can’t call your partner due to family visits, or work engagements give sexting a go. Try turning up the volume, calling out some steamy dirty talk during sex can be an added turn on.

“French hens”

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Don’t worry we won’t suggest you learn French, however it is a great language to dirty talk in. However, often times, if you have been in a relationship for an extended period of time kissing becomes more like an expected show of affection than a hungering passionate act. Go ahead and remind each other what those first French kisses with each other were like. First person to try and take things a step further loses!


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Please do not mount your partner and flap your arms like a dove as some people have suggested as a sex position called the turtledoves. Instead embrace them for the symbol of the shy, sweet, and true love that they are. Spend some time sweetly caressing and loving on your partner’s body. Take the time to indulge in a true love making session.

“Partridge in a Pear Tree”

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It’s Christmas if there was ever a day for some holiday sex it is today! Pick your favorite positions and give them a go under the tree. Make sure Santa isn’t the only one cumming in your town! Keep in mind that this is the most given gift in this song and don’t be afraid to replay this stanza a few times.

Happy 12 days of Christmas!



Porn and real life




The consumption of pornography is a complex and multifaceted phenomenon that can be influenced by a variety of psychological, social, and cultural factors. There are several reasons why people may enjoy watching pornography, even though it may not accurately depict how women really have sex. Some of these reasons include:

1. **Fantasy and escapism**: Pornography often presents a fantasy world where sexual encounters are idealized and exaggerated. For many viewers, watching porn can provide a temporary escape from the realities of everyday life and allow them to explore their sexual fantasies in a safe and controlled environment.

2. **Instant gratification**: Pornography offers a quick and easily accessible source of arousal and sexual stimulation. In a society where instant gratification is increasingly valued, the convenience and immediacy of online porn make it a popular choice for those seeking sexual pleasure.

3. **Curiosity and exploration**: Pornography can serve as a tool for exploring and expanding one’s sexual repertoire. Watching different types of sexual acts and scenarios in porn can help individuals discover new desires, preferences, and possibilities for their own sexual experiences.

4. **Loneliness and companionship**: Some people may turn to pornography as a way to alleviate feelings of loneliness or seek connection and intimacy. Watching porn can provide a sense of companionship and intimacy, even if it is only a temporary substitute for real human interaction.

5. **Lack of sexual education**: In some cases, people may turn to pornography as a source of sexual education and information. However, it’s important to note that porn does not provide an accurate representation of real-life sexual experiences and should not be used as a substitute for comprehensive sex education.

6. **Peer influence and social norms**: Peer pressure and social norms can also play a role in shaping individuals’ attitudes towards pornography. In a culture that often glamorizes and normalizes pornographic consumption, some people may feel pressured to participate in watching porn to fit in or conform to societal expectations.

It’s important to acknowledge that while pornography can fulfill certain needs and desires for some individuals, it is not a realistic or healthy representation of how women really have sex. Pornography often perpetuates harmful stereotypes, unrealistic expectations, and unhealthy attitudes towards sex and relationships, which can have negative consequences on viewers’ perceptions and behaviors. It’s essential for individuals to critically evaluate the messages and images portrayed in pornography and seek out alternative sources of sexual information and entertainment that promote healthier and more ethical depictions of sexuality.

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How to describe an orgasm




Describing an orgasm is a deeply personal and subjective experience, as it can vary greatly from person to person. For some, it may be intense, explosive, and all-encompassing, while for others, it may be subtle, gradual, and more nuanced. However, there are some general themes and sensations commonly associated with orgasms that can be described.

Physiologically, an orgasm is often characterized by a buildup of tension and excitement in the body, followed by a release of that tension in a series of pleasurable contractions and spasms. This release is typically accompanied by a rush of intense sensations and feelings of euphoria.

Emotionally, an orgasm can evoke a wide range of emotions, including pleasure, ecstasy, joy, and even a sense of transcendence. Many people describe feeling a deep sense of connection with their partner or themselves during an orgasm, as well as a profound sense of release and relaxation.

Sensations during an orgasm can vary, but often include a feeling of warmth and tingling that spreads throughout the body, a sense of heightened awareness and sensitivity to touch, and a feeling of being completely present in the moment.

Some people may experience a mental or emotional release during an orgasm, which can manifest as a sense of letting go of stress, tension, or inhibitions. Others may experience a sense of clarity, focus, or even spiritual connection during an orgasm.

Ultimately, the experience of an orgasm is deeply personal and can be difficult to put into words. It is a complex and multifaceted event that involves physical, emotional, and psychological aspects, and can vary greatly from person to person. Each individual may experience orgasms in their own unique way, and it is important to honor and respect the diversity and complexity of human sexuality and pleasure.

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What not to do getting into phone sex




Phone sex can be a fun and intimate way to connect with your partner, spice up your relationship, and explore your fantasies together. However, like any form of sexual activity, it is important to establish boundaries, respect each other’s comfort levels, and communicate openly and honestly. To ensure a positive and enjoyable phone sex experience, it is helpful to be aware of what not to do during phone sex:

1. Don’t assume consent: It is crucial to ensure that both partners are comfortable and consenting to engage in phone sex. Just because you and your partner have done it before does not mean they are always up for it. Always ask for and respect their consent before initiating phone sex.

2. Don’t pressure or coerce: It is important to remember that each person has their own boundaries and comfort levels. Do not pressure or coerce your partner into participating in phone sex if they are not comfortable with it. Respect their feelings and desires, and be willing to stop if they express discomfort or hesitation.

3. Don’t rush: Take your time and enjoy the experience. Rushing through phone sex can make it feel mechanical and unfulfilling. Focus on building anticipation, creating a sensual atmosphere, and exploring each other’s desires at a pace that feels comfortable for both partners.

4. Don’t make assumptions: Everyone has different preferences and fantasies when it comes to sexual activity. Do not assume that your partner shares the same desires or interests as you. Instead, communicate openly and honestly about what you both enjoy and establish boundaries and limits before engaging in phone sex.

5. Don’t forget about consent and privacy: Remember that phone sex is a form of intimate communication and should be treated with respect and confidentiality. Make sure that you are in a safe and private environment where you can have uninterrupted, consensual phone sex without the risk of being overheard or interrupted.

6. Don’t forget to communicate: Communication is key in any sexual activity, including phone sex. Make sure to talk openly with your partner about your desires, boundaries, and fantasies. Check in with each other throughout the experience to ensure that you are both enjoying yourselves and feeling comfortable.

In conclusion, phone sex can be a fun and exciting way to connect with your partner and explore your sexual desires together. By being respectful, communicative, and mindful of each other’s boundaries and comfort levels, you can ensure a positive and enjoyable phone sex experience for both you and your partner.

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